Reading Body Language – Tips To Become An Expert
Want to become an expert in reading body language? Can you tell when people lie and understand the intentions of the people?
I feel that body language is the most important things you can learn. It ignores the verbal communication barriers and gives an overview of what others may think or what actions it might take. Remember that the art of being able to read body language is being able to see someones pick up signals, while not allowing this person to pick up on what you’re doing.
1. – Eyes
Dilated pupils – the person is interested in the subject.
People say that eyes are the windows to the soul. They may say as much about the person if you know what you’re looking for. As in most cases, the signal can be interpreted differently. It depends entirely upon the circumstances at hand. The previous example could also mean that the person is on drugs, or could mean they are concentrated.
2. – Hands
Open Palm .- A person is relaxed and comfortable.
The hands have many expressions and are a good starting point to reading body language. In general, when hands are open, meaning that they relax their defenses.
3 – Imitation
When you talk to someone if they are imitating the body’s position and action, this means they are comfortable with the situation and most likely interested in you and what you say.
4 – Eyes
If the eyes of someone is looking around you, then they may be feeling guilty about something. Remember, the eyes have many meanings and is easy to make the wrong assessment. Practice makes perfect.
5 – Arms
The two main expressions of the arms is that they are tightly closed (folded) or open. Once folded, the person may have anger or disapproval. When your arms are open so that the person is in an honest and accept the situation.
6 – Chin Rubbing
If someone rubs their chin, this usually means they are thinking, when a person thinks (good or bad) then you know you have captured their attention which in most cases is a good thing.
7 – Feet
When you’re talking to someone, you know if you are comfortable and interested in what you say about the position of their feet. When standing face to face, the feet of the others face in your direction. This means they are comfortable and their head and eyes will be on you.
When someone standing in front of your feet and their head and eyes do not focus on you. This usually means lack of interest.
8 – Legs
Legs are a good indicator of the degree of trust from someone. If someone is standing with legs apart to shoulder width, are relaxed.
When standing up with legs crossed, the person probably is shy.
Once seated, if the legs are crossed indicates that the person is in protection mode. This is used together with the action through the arm.
9 – Fingers
The fingers can create a lot of gestures and perfect in reading body language. A person can be a finger pointing to an item or place, can also indicate anger. If someone is bent toes usually need something.
Drums or tapping the finger shows frustration. The faster the beat, more frustration and tension in the person.
10 – Eyebrows
The eyebrows have many uses. The following are some examples. When the eyebrows are raised, the person is shocked or surprised.
I hope you enjoyed learning tips on reading body language tricks. Learning how to read body language is not a skill that can be learned overnight. The more you practice, the easier it will become and the more subtle you will become.
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