Reading Body Language

Want to become an expert in reading body language? Can you tell when people lie and understand the intentions of the people?

I feel that body language is the most important things you can learn. It ignores the verbal communication barriers and gives an overview of what others may think or what actions it might take. Remember that the art of being able to read body language is being able to see someones pick up signals, while not allowing this person to pick up on what you’re doing.

1. – Eyes

Dilated pupils – the person is interested in the subject.

People say that eyes are the windows to the soul. They may say as much about the person if you know what you’re looking for. As in most cases, the signal can be interpreted differently. It depends entirely upon the circumstances at hand. The previous example could also mean that the person is on drugs, or could mean they are concentrated.

2. – Hands

Open Palm .- A person is relaxed and comfortable.

The hands have many expressions and are a good starting point to reading body language. In general, when hands are open, meaning that they relax their defenses.

3 – Imitation

When you talk to someone if they are imitating the body’s position and action, this means they are comfortable with the situation and most likely interested in you and what you say.

4 – Eyes

If the eyes of someone is looking around you, then they may be feeling guilty about something. Remember, the eyes have many meanings and is easy to make the wrong assessment. Practice makes perfect.

5 – Arms

The two main expressions of the arms is that they are tightly closed (folded) or open. Once folded, the person may have anger or disapproval. When your arms are open so that the person is in an honest and accept the situation.

6 – Chin Rubbing

If someone rubs their chin, this usually means they are thinking, when a person thinks (good or bad) then you know you have captured their attention which in most cases is a good thing.

7 – Feet

When you’re talking to someone, you know if you are comfortable and interested in what you say about the position of their feet. When standing face to face, the feet of the others face in your direction. This means they are comfortable and their head and eyes will be on you.

When someone standing in front of your feet and their head and eyes do not focus on you. This usually means lack of interest.

8 – Legs

Legs are a good indicator of the degree of trust from someone. If someone is standing with legs apart to shoulder width, are relaxed.

When standing up with legs crossed, the person probably is shy.

Once seated, if the legs are crossed indicates that the person is in protection mode. This is used together with the action through the arm.

9 – Fingers

The fingers can create a lot of gestures and perfect in reading body language. A person can be a finger pointing to an item or place, can also indicate anger. If someone is bent toes usually need something.

Drums or tapping the finger shows frustration. The faster the beat, more frustration and tension in the person.

10 – Eyebrows

The eyebrows have many uses. The following are some examples. When the eyebrows are raised, the person is shocked or surprised.

I hope you enjoyed learning tips on reading body language tricks. Learning how to read body language is not a skill that can be learned overnight. The more you practice, the easier it will become and the more subtle you will become.

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Reading body language is easy to spot if you know what to look for. These are messages that are sent automatically and unconsciously. Women send about five times more messages of body language and gestures than men in the same period.

Reading body language proved to be our most reliable indicator of how others think and feel about us. Men tend to pay more attention to verbal messages and ignore reading body language and this is where most men fail to communicate with females. This is unfortunate because all messages from the unconscious body language is accurate and truthful. Words are not often true.

Reading body language reflects deep answers only in the brain’s limbic system. The usual body language that has worked for the survival and mating has been refined and repeated from generation to generation. Today, women still use many of the same body language to attract men that their earliest ancestors used.

Woman use their entire body when sending signals and a lot of it comes from entwining her legs. The most common body language is that a woman begins to shake all her hair, stroking and painting, and generally move away from the face and shoulders to expose soft bare skin are strong indications that women are open to be approached by men.

Flirting body language is undeniable. Another important movement is for her to adjust clothing with relaxation, openness or exposure of the movement to call attention to her body. If she’s smart, she exposes some bare skin in the process and you’re good at reading body language, you can pick up the signals and approach at just the right moment.

Reading the body language of a woman flirting is often the opening movements of clothing and exposure of bare skin or touching her hair. Flirting body language is all too common with women and you need to know how to read and pick up on them, because women know what men want.

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Reading body language can be difficult to most of the time, but did you know that the best way to know what the person thinks about you is through the eyes? The eyes are the windows to the soul, and they never lie. Even the slightest wink or blink emotion may be deeper than you may know and the feelings and suggestions of dark secrets yet to be revealed. Here are five ways to reading body language by eye contact. Learn how to spot and know exactly what a person thinks of you.

- The soft eyes. Or more popularly, the doe eyes. The eyes are soft, slightly drooping and bright. When someone gives you that look, feel attracted to you and do everything possible so that you look back.

- Prolonged eye contact. Intellectuals like to make eye contact during conversation. Prolonged eye contact may be a sign of interest in what you speak, or are more and more intrigued. They can try to find out if you’re interested too.

- The slight look or glance. An index of insecurity and anxiety that you may not like them. The glance often shows that they have a huge need to be admired and desired.

- Look fleeting. Contact with the eyes of failure. You can see for a while and then look away and then look back. It is a sign that are threatened or intensely shy.

- Intense light. Totally into you, no doubt. Eye contact means that are very interested and attracted to you and wants you to know this.

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